Baby Loss Support Group
We are so sorry your baby has died. Hōkai Tahi’s baby loss support group is available to parents who have experienced the devastating loss of a precious little one. No matter the reason your baby died, their age, or gestation, this group offers its support to you as you journey through grief and loss.
We invite you to come as you are into a space of empathy, acceptance, and aroha. We recognise that everyone’s journey is different, and welcome anyone who is grieving, no matter the reason their baby died, their age, or gestation.
You are welcome to attend on your own, or together as a couple.
This is a safe and supportive space to connect with others who understand, share if you wish, or simply be present.
Support Group Format
Our Baby Loss Support Groups are 2 hour sessions, and follow a 6-week program catered to the needs of the group. There is plenty of space for whakawhanaungatanga, sharing your journey and the life of your baby.
- Journey through loss and grief through sharing your story
- Facilitated by experienced counsellors and support coordinators
- Comfortable, empathetic, safe space
- Fully accessible + bathroom
- Breakout space available for time alone
- Opportunity for additional support outside of group
- FREE thanks to generous funding from Masterton Trust Lands Trust
Session topics may include:
- Grief and Identity
- Physical and Mental Side Effects
- Including our Babies in our Lives
- Art Therapy
- Relationships after Loss
- Dealing with Comments and Remarks
Our sessions are based on similar events by SANDS and advice provided by Vicki Culling Associates, and facilitated by experienced counsellors and support coordinators.
If you would like further support, and group settings aren’t for you, please book an individual appointment.

Upcoming Sessions
- Our next group begins on the 19th of October 2026. The group will run for six weeks on Monday evenings (with the exception of week 2, which will move to Tuesday evening due to Labour weekend)
- Please register your interest for our next group via the register form below.
